Unconditional Love
What On Earth is Unconditional love?
Sometimes it is difficult to express what the heart line stores and experiences. I realize that sometimes I am not aware of the beautiful gift that life gives me daily, and I receive more of what I “lose”.
Love is not a feeling. It is a state. I call it the “state of Unconditional Love.” And those feelings come and go, fill us or leave us. It can not be controlled and rarely (almost never) can we decide what to feel. So you can not exercise value judgments when someone feels “good” or “bad” because it only feels, it is not bound.
Unconditional Love on the contrary, it does require an election, requires will and action. And that love can be a side effect as feeling “good” or positive, which is the same as an inner feeling that is comfortable. However, it is also contradictory, because love can produce pain so intense that we even lose track of reality and believe that feeling pain is the only “reality”
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Love requires choice. I firmly believe that you can choose to Unconditional Love, because we can choose who to hate. They have the same performance. Who hated it means most of this sentiment is unfortunately easier to accommodate, and I think we all experience in our lives at some point. You can not say the same for love as it is experienced to a lesser extent if our environment decided not love and are open to recognize it. An environment devoid of love can be a breeding ground for hate-filled person, a person who knows no commitment to others, fidelity, loyalty, sacrifices, and responsibility. It is simply a person who focuses his life itself.
Love requires will. It is the sense of inner strength that moves the action to decide. Will is not to choose but have the strength to make it effective. You hear the phrase “But I can not forgive…”, “even though I try, I can not forget” “I can not stop thinking about these things.” These are actions that require an inner maturity, exercised in making decisions, however difficult they are. When we do an exercise, practice any artistic expression or just “study”, we are exercising the will. Sometimes laziness, tiredness comes upon us, the disappointment … but our will moves us to arrive at the last minute of exercise.
Love requires action. At this point, if we chose to be loved, and we have the will to love, the action is the outward manifestation of the two internal processes. Unconditional Love is to be shown. And speaking of action does not necessarily involve the basic expressions of affection such as kissing or hugging. Speaking of action involves the beloved act to be happy. Obviously this has its nuances. We can choose to be “happy” a person in a short time, or think of being happy for long.
The action of Unconditional Love must be free from selfishness. If we can think of another person, we can even feel pain. If you say love is a feeling, think again. Love is a set of feelings, but its basis, its essence is the feeling … that inner strength is called will.
Back To The Meaning Of Love
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The Importance of Love by Leyla Ergun.
Love is a strong feeling of affection for yourself and others, your environment and the world.
Love is a positive emotional state causing peace and happiness within a person’s heart and mind and promotes good health.
Actions driven by love are always good and true, that is why love is very important for everyone and everything.
Love can make us want to sing, dance, smile, and shed tears of joy, help others and so much more.
Love is a powerful and good emotion that everyone needs to feel. The love from one person can affect the lives of many others and can arouse the presence of love in others.
Love can be awakened and accessed through our senses such as: sight, touch, sound, or through a person’s presence, known as their aura.
Love lifts a person’s spirits and can change a person’s mood from sadness to happiness; it elevates people to carry on.
All human beings and animals have the capacity to love and feel love; we are all beings of love: to give and to receive love.
Love can be perfect or it can be ordinary, it is vast. When love is perfect, your heart and mind become one, and consumed with love.
When Love is perfect, it is the ultimate experience of Love, which is a state of purity within oneself, and is reflected in the purity of our body, heart, and mind. When all three are consumed with love, one’s definition of right and wrong becomes naturally heightened and defined, and this helps everyone to make the right choices and decisions throughout their lives.
It is the Love all people have inside, which helps bring people together, and is vital in forming long-term healthy relationships with people in society.
When we feel love, it inspires us to care; and that is the meaning and the experience of life.
Love is a feeling that needs to be protected in order to stay true, strong and well defined.
To protect its integrity: the purer the love, the superior the good knowledge born from it; giving greater benefits for all.
Love is an essential part of all of us to help live our lives well, as it regulates the emotional state of our body and keeps the body in balance.
Love is a crucial part of our existence; it is what all people want to feel on a subconscious level. When the subconscious merges with the conscious then the gift of love can be fully appreciated and understood.
It is not uncommon for love to sometimes get confused and mixed up with other feelings such as lust, which can make the experience of love an emotionally painful, regrettable and empty one in some cases, but purification is the cure for such instances, and will put a person back on the clear path to love.
For further reading, a good book that talks about love is The Reason by Leyla Ergun.
Love on leylaergun.co.uk